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Paul Noiles
Nov 10, 20192 min read
Awakening is not what you think.
I used to believe; Awakening was about getting rid of all the darkness. Boy, was I wrong! It's not about that at all. Awakening is about...
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Paul Noiles
Oct 31, 20192 min read
Pain is not bad!
We have been brought up to believe that pain is bad, and pleasure is good, but the two are inseparable like night and day, birth and...
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Paul Noiles
Sep 20, 20193 min read
Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)
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Paul Noiles
Jul 19, 20191 min read
Silence is the foundation.
There can be no knowing who we are without silence. There can be no authentic life without silence. There can be no awakening or lasting...
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Paul Noiles
May 16, 20192 min read
At some point, we have to trust thyself!
At some point, we have to decide not to care what others think of our life or ourselves! We must be done, entirely with NOT BEING TRUE TO...
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Paul Noiles
May 9, 20192 min read
We see the world as we are.
When we meet someone who appears different, remember it’s a holy encounter. As we see him, we will see ourselves. As we treat her, we...
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Paul Noiles
Apr 4, 20192 min read
“What others have to say about us is none of our business.”
It’s a true statement, but it will not serve us well until we look into the real reasons we become upset from what others say about us....
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Paul Noiles
Mar 15, 20193 min read
We need compassion from two places to recover; ourselves and others.
The last thing I needed back in my addiction years was the judgement of others because I was already constantly beating the living shit...
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Paul Noiles
Mar 8, 20192 min read
The answer to suffering!
The answer to suffering is to find meaning; it's how we let go of the victimhood question --why me? To this day, it blows my mind that...
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Paul Noiles
Feb 25, 20192 min read
Detachment means nothing owns us.
Detachment is critical to our spiritual awakening and recovery because when we attach our identity to anything or anyone, we can lose...
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Paul Noiles
Feb 24, 20191 min read
Every human being is addicted!
I am going to make a bold statement, “Every human being is addicted, in one way or another.” Because we have ALL at one time or another...
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Paul Noiles
Feb 12, 20192 min read
From what the world would call "success" to being "homeless" in 2005.
Being homeless was like no other pain. I felt like the scum of the earth, so I created a delusional story to emotionally and...
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Paul Noiles
Jan 26, 20192 min read
Are we our feelings; is this who we are?
Had I not peeled the most important layer of the onion “I am not my feelings” I would have died because I used my substance of choice for...
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Paul Noiles
Jan 16, 20192 min read
Find Your Balance
After a decade of daily journaling (2000- 2010) doing what is called morning pages, I discovered a common theme; “Slow the fuck down...
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Paul Noiles
Jan 8, 20192 min read
How do you start you're day?
I wake up, most morning at 6 am (progress not perfection) and start my day with great reverence for life. I dedicate the first 60 minutes...
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