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"Exploring the Impact of Love and Attachment on Relationships"
 Attachment, often mistaken for love, thrives on conditions and expectations. It whispers, "I'll love you if..." or "I need you to be this w
Paul Noiles
Apr 8, 20242 min read
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Beliefs have the Power to Illuminate and Darken our Path
The humble phrase "I don't know" seems to be disappearing from our society. Instead, people rely on their beliefs as 'certainty,' which can
Paul Noiles
Mar 18, 20242 min read
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The Profound Connection Between Trauma and Our Emotions. #emotionalhealing
People who have not done some healing work around their trauma have the most challenging time recognizing their emotions, childhood trauma
Paul Noiles
Jan 17, 20242 min read
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Fear our biggest Blocker to Authentic.
The research indicates that we have more regrets about what WE DID NOT DO than what WE DID DO. What stops most of us from doing this is FEAR
Paul Noiles
Nov 20, 20232 min read
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Interview on a Podcast
Recovery, Awakening, Healing, Toxic Shame, Trauma
Paul Noiles
Nov 6, 20231 min read
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Layer 1 of Mistaken Identity: Victim
We all have Mistaken Identity - where we don't like something about ourselves and playing Victim keeps us sick without responsibility
Paul Noiles
Oct 25, 20231 min read
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The Father-son and Mother-Daughter Relationships
The father-son and mother-daughter relationships and their healing are vital to the world's health. recovery healing addiction
Paul Noiles
Jul 14, 20232 min read
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Addiction is a family disease!
I often saw this while facilitating the family group at a treatment center. Many looked bewildered when I explained that denial and...
Paul Noiles
May 16, 20232 min read
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Paul Noiles
May 15, 20230 min read
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You are a Sunflower
It Matters - All of It - What happened to you as a little person - You Matter
Paul Noiles
Dec 6, 20221 min read
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Reparenting Little You!
Tyler Perry, the famous filmmaker, actor, and advocate talks openly about being abused by his father in an interview with Chris Wallace....
Paul Noiles
Nov 16, 20222 min read
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Some Hard Lessons I had to Learn:
When I stopped numbing and started feeling, I had to reevaluate everything, especially loving myself over making others comfortable. I...
Paul Noiles
Jul 15, 20222 min read
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The voice of - I don't matter.
A healthy family allows each person (especially the children) to bring their whole selves to the table, knowing they will be; heard,...
Paul Noiles
Apr 14, 20222 min read
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Addiction Shuts Down the Heart Chakra
At its core, addiction is the shutting down of the heart chakra which usually begins in childhood from emotional loss or trauma.
Paul Noiles
Nov 9, 20213 min read
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Unhealed Childhood Trauma
I was utterly unaware that I was highjacked and triggered by a part of me that did not feel safe because of unhealed childhood trauma. I liv
Paul Noiles
Jul 21, 20212 min read
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Don't become a victim of your childhood.
"We spend our childhood wanting to grow up and spend our adulthood trying to undo our childhood." – Paul Noiles. The problem is that many...
Paul Noiles
Jul 19, 20212 min read
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No substance or behavior is addictive in and of itself.
Alcohol does not make someone an alcoholic. Cocaine does not make someone a cocaine addict. Casinos do not make someone a gambling addict.
Paul Noiles
Jun 7, 20213 min read
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False Purpose
I once believed love, life, and others' respect and admiration would be mine if I could find a great purpose. I'd heard this repeatedly...
Paul Noiles
Jan 28, 20212 min read
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We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...
Paul Noiles
Nov 18, 20192 min read
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Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)
Paul Noiles
Sep 20, 20193 min read
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