"Exploring the Impact of Love and Attachment on Relationships"
Attachment, often mistaken for love, thrives on conditions and expectations. It whispers, "I'll love you if..." or "I need you to be this w
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Paul Noiles
Mar 182 min read
Beliefs have the Power to Illuminate and Darken our Path
The humble phrase "I don't know" seems to be disappearing from our society. Instead, people rely on their beliefs as 'certainty,' which can
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Paul Noiles
Jan 172 min read
The Profound Connection Between Trauma and Our Emotions. #emotionalhealing
People who have not done some healing work around their trauma have the most challenging time recognizing their emotions, childhood trauma
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Paul Noiles
Nov 20, 20232 min read
Fear our biggest Blocker to Authentic.
The research indicates that we have more regrets about what WE DID NOT DO than what WE DID DO. What stops most of us from doing this is FEAR
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Paul Noiles
Nov 6, 20231 min read
Interview on a Podcast
Recovery, Awakening, Healing, Toxic Shame, Trauma
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Paul Noiles
Oct 25, 20231 min read
Layer 1 of Mistaken Identity: Victim
We all have Mistaken Identity - where we don't like something about ourselves and playing Victim keeps us sick without responsibility
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Paul Noiles
Jul 14, 20232 min read
The Father-son and Mother-Daughter Relationships
The father-son and mother-daughter relationships and their healing are vital to the world's health. recovery healing addiction
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Paul Noiles
May 16, 20232 min read
Addiction is a family disease!
I often saw this while facilitating the family group at a treatment center. Many looked bewildered when I explained that denial and...
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Paul Noiles
Dec 6, 20221 min read
You are a Sunflower
It Matters - All of It - What happened to you as a little person - You Matter
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Paul Noiles
Nov 16, 20222 min read
Reparenting Little You!
Tyler Perry, the famous filmmaker, actor, and advocate talks openly about being abused by his father in an interview with Chris Wallace....
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Paul Noiles
Jul 15, 20222 min read
Some Hard Lessons I had to Learn:
When I stopped numbing and started feeling, I had to reevaluate everything, especially loving myself over making others comfortable. I...
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Paul Noiles
Apr 14, 20222 min read
The voice of - I don't matter.
A healthy family allows each person (especially the children) to bring their whole selves to the table, knowing they will be; heard,...
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Paul Noiles
Nov 9, 20213 min read
Addiction Shuts Down the Heart Chakra
At its core, addiction is the shutting down of the heart chakra which usually begins in childhood from emotional loss or trauma.
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Paul Noiles
Jul 21, 20212 min read
Unhealed Childhood Trauma
I was utterly unaware that I was highjacked and triggered by a part of me that did not feel safe because of unhealed childhood trauma. I liv
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Paul Noiles
Jul 19, 20212 min read
Don't become a victim of your childhood.
"We spend our childhood wanting to grow up and spend our adulthood trying to undo our childhood." – Paul Noiles. The problem is that many...
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Paul Noiles
Jun 7, 20213 min read
No substance or behavior is addictive in and of itself.
Alcohol does not make someone an alcoholic. Cocaine does not make someone a cocaine addict. Casinos do not make someone a gambling addict.
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Paul Noiles
Jan 28, 20212 min read
False Purpose
I once believed love, life, and others' respect and admiration would be mine if I could find a great purpose. I'd heard this repeatedly...
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Paul Noiles
Nov 18, 20192 min read
We all know about addiction!
I am going to make two bold statements that might upset many: 1) Every human being "knows addiction" if they are honest with themselves...
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Paul Noiles
Sep 20, 20193 min read
Childhood and dysfunction.
We desire intimacy but fear vulnerability. We say "come here (looking to connect)" but then say "go away" ( fear of rejection.)
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